Aug 02 2007
Not this time
I will not take all the blame. I am not the only one who has made mistakes. I am who I am and that is what I will always try to be. No one has to like me. I am glad some people do, but I am doing my best to not dwell on the people who don’t.
Thank goodness it is almost the weekend. I am ready to get away for a bit. It has been a really long time since I have been camping. Should be fun and interesting.
Those who don’t like you just haven’t taken the time to get to know you. Anyone who really knows you, knows that you are a likeable person and deserve to be treated as such. The people who don’t like you aren’t really worth your time anyway. I’ve learned that over the past few years. If there is one main lesson I’ve learned in my life, it’s that the people who matter most in life are the ones you don’t have to convince you’re worth something…they already know that you are. Chin up! Enjoy your weekend!
You are right of course, but isn’t it funny how the people that don’t see us that way are the ones we are so concerned about?
I think it has to do with being able to see myself from their point of view better than I can the people who do like me.
Yea I know…life is funny that way. When people like us, we aren’t really concerned that much. It’s just “normal.” But when someone doesn’t like us or expresses something negative about us, that’s when we start to pay attention. You’d think it would be easier to forget those that don’t matter and focus on the people who do. Go figure
I’ve been there many times…I finally realized that worrying does nothing except bothers me. It is more upsetting to those people causing the problems if they see us happy and not letting it bother us. Just a thought.